How to Maintain Confidence Toward Purpose!

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Hi! I created this live stream while at my pop up shop for my natural hair and body care product line and mobile salon. Oh Yes, for those of you who don’t know, I’m also a license cosmetologist. Anyway, I hope to inspire YOU to maintain Confidence to prosper and operate in your purpose. I used Periscope to spread this motivational message that is what I call, “Godfidence.” I share my own efforts using spiritual/Christian disciplines to stay strong in her journey of living on purpose and how it can be a struggle at times. Moreover, let’s acknowledge the REAL battle of pressing through what appears to be obstacles and distractions while believing in your vision and dreams. In summary, I am encourage US to keep our faith and implement life spiritual life strategies and the mindset to do so.

My take away is: The main strategy for maintaining confidence and faith is relying on God’s word (holy scriptures) and making connections with like-minded individuals and groups (joining or building a community). Click the image to watch:

 


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Purpose After Betrayal w/Belinda Priester

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My special #podcast guest Belinda J. Priester, is an author, RN, entrepreneur and a proud Mom. She has a powerful story of healing past being betrayed by family members at a young age. Through the power of prayer, dedicating her life to Christ, therapy and mentoring, Belinda has been able to overcome her past trauma from sexual abuse and is now helping other women do the same.

 


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Purpose Passion Finder Online Workshop

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Yes! It’s my Purpose Passion Finder Workshop! What if I could help you identify your strongest skills and talent that you should be using as a blessing to others? Are you ready to operate in your passion and purpose but need to get more clear about what that is?

* Need to know your why?

*Use my simple but creative method of zeroing in on your strengths and passions connected to your Purpose.

* You are feeling unfulfilled and need confirmation with identifying your strengths, purpose and inner greatness…

* You also believe that there is more to you and uncharted untapped brilliance, originality and passion…

* You want to discover how to package and monetize your genius, life experience, skill-set and expertise… SIGN UP to this virtual workshop & discover how your passion is indicative or your purpose & begin to operate in your passion & purpose to live a more fulfilling life at: bit.ly/purposepassionworkshop or https://get-your-life-back-academy.te… All in my Get Your Life Back Academy. Here is a video about the workshop:


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Practicing Self Care In the Workplace

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Here, I’m sharing some simple tips on practicing self-care within the workplace. Also, I’m providing tips for maintaining spiritual wellness. Many of us don’t really think or associate self-care with work which is understandable in terms of the word “Work.” However, in other to practice real self-care, we have to manage our emotions, mind, body and spiritual wellbeing in every environment we enter in order to maintain some sense of peace and to thrive…


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SOCIAL MEDIA:

* INSTAGRAM: @cheryl.getyourlifeback / https://www.instagram.com/cheryl.gety…

* TWITTER: (@getyourlifebak * FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/cherylhoward…

* PODCASTS: SoundCloud: https://m.soundcloud.com/getyourlifeback

iTune Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast…

* YOUTUBE CHANNELS: https://www.youtube.com/c/CherylYHowa…

& MOTHER DAUGHTER TALK: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCfxB…

* SINGLE WOMEN OF PURPOSE GROUP: https://www.facebook.com/groups/14112…

* PASTORAL COUNSELING & MINISTRY: Bit.ly/HealingForYourSoulMinistries

#selfcare #workplace #selfvalue #relaxation #techniques #takingbreaks #readingthebible #takingwalks

How to Defeat The Impostor Syndrome

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Waiting on my order at Duck Donuts

The Impostor/Imposter Syndrome Defined:

*Originally called impostor phenomenonimpostor syndrome, as it’s now usually called, is commonly understood as a false and sometimes crippling belief that one’s successes are the product of luck or fraud rather than skill. (… term was coined by American psychologists Pauline Clance and Suzanne Imes). –Merriam Webster Dictionary

**… A psychological pattern in which an individual doubts their accomplishments and has a persistent internalized fear of being exposed as a “fraud”.[1] Despite external evidence of their competence, those experiencing this phenomenon remain convinced that they are frauds, and do not deserve all they have achieved. Individuals with impostorism incorrectly attribute their success to luck, or as a result of deceiving others into thinking they are more intelligent than they perceive themselves to be. –Wikipedia

*** … The persistent inability to believe that one’s success is deserved or has been legitimately achieved as a result of one’s own efforts or skills. (‘people suffering from impostor syndrome may be at increased risk of anxiety’)Oxford Dictionary 

Example of this syndrome:

Your inner critic or voice says, “You are a fake” You are phony” “You are not as smart as everyone else in the room” “You do not really deserve this praise, complement or award” they just gave it to you our of pity or out of charity” “They done found you out” “You know you are not qualified for this…” “Why are you going through the motions when you know you will fail” and so on…
WELL, DON’T BELIEVE IT!!! THERE’S A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM, MAKING MIS-TAKES AND LEARNING FROM THEM, BEING A PERFECTIONIST CO-SIGNING WITH YOUR CORE BELIEFS AND BELIEVING IN YOURSELF AND ABILITIES.

Remedies to defeat this syndrome:

0. REMEMBER THAT NO ONE CAME INTO THIS WORLD KNOWING EVERYTHING OR ANYTHING, AND THAT NO ONE IS PERFECT AND WITHOUT FLAWS, MISTAKES OR “WEAKNESSES.”
1. BELIEVE WHO GOD SAYS YOU ARE IN HIS WORD (BIBLE)
2. RECITE AFFIRMATIONS & POSITIVE CONFESSIONS
3. EDUCATE TO GROW
4. HAVE A WILLINGNESS TO LEARN
5. BELIEVE IN YOURSELF
6. BE TRANSPARENT
7. DON’T ENGAGE IN THE SPIRIT OF COMPETITION
8. STOP COMPARING YOURSELF TO OTHERS
9. PERCEIVE YOUR SHORT COMINGS (that everyone has) AS A PART OF THE HUMAN EXPERIENCE AND RELATABLE TO OTHERS
11. TAP INTO YOUR STRENGTHS AND INNER GREATNESS
12. TALK ENCOURAGEMENT AND EMPOWERMENT TO YOURSELF
13. DISTRACT NEGATIVE THOUGHTS
14. FORGIVE YOURSELF
15. COMPLIMENT YOURSELF
16. KEEP A COMPANY/CIRCLE OF PEOPLE WHO LOVE YOU AND APPRECIATE YOUR UNIQUENESS AND WHO SEE YOU.
17. STOP MINIMIZING YOUR VALUE AND ACCOMPLISHMENTS
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I basically shared remedies with you and most of them that I USE for myself! Did you HEAR that? USE FOR MYSELF! I don’t care how big, great, successful, gifted, talented or popular we are, we may/can still battle or experience the IMPOSTOR SYNDROME. Hey, did you ever think that THE IMPOSTER SYNDROME IS AN IMPOSTOR ITSELF? That just came to me as I write this blogpost. Note, both spellings (impostor/imposter) are correct to use.
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 IJS! Sometimes, out of fear, we tell ourselves lies or past insecurities try to pop up even though we identify our strengths and uniqueness. Moreover, so what if we step into or engage in an activity that we are not secure in or an expert in, it’s a part of the growing, grooming and on the job training that many of us experience in life. I remember while enrolled in cosmetology school, most of us students, while training to become licensed, all knew that, designing a hair style, nail care, hair color or even hair cut on a patron for the first time, can be nerve-racking. The client/patron may not know that it was our first time but we do/did. No matter what, we still had to keep pushing to grow and master our craft. Guess what, I made mistakes as a hair artist/cosmetologist but I already accept that this is a part of the journey and every other professional cosmetologist/hair stylist is/has/had the same journey. Embrace and Chase Your dreams in spite of. We are still able to use the title “cosmetologist” or “Professional”. We have to see it, believe it and say it. We have to walk in our aspiring or learning skill and perfect it with practice.
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The truth is, we can be really great and competent at things but still experience this “syndrome.” Bottom line, once we learn the power of dismantling, disabling and pull down every stronghold that speaks or whispers against who God says we are in Him, then we realize our own power, anointing, uniqueness and strengths.
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Note, If you have battled with the Imposter Syndrome, I would love to hear your story of overcoming it. If you are dealing with this syndrome now, I hope this post helps you to overcome it and keep striving forward…
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Hey, why don’t you follow me on instagram and Facebook for continuous inspirations, events, motivation and announcements. Chao!

Becoming A Motivational Speaker w/guest Taylor Made

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Taylor Made Podcast

My guest Taylor aka “Taylor Made.” Taylor has earned the reputation as a dedicated Certified Motivational, Inspirational Speaker and Life Coach driven by his unwavering passion to uplift people. To date, he has authored the book, “The Time Is Now.” Born in Toronto Canada and raised in the United States, Taylor’s passion for making a positive impact in the world began early on. However, he felt deeply inspired to become a motivational speaker. Ultimately, he is on a mission to help as many people as possible and harness their infinite potential in order to become their best versions. For over two decades, Taylor proudly served as a Security Expert at the Pentagon and National Security Agency (NSA) and spent nearly a decade in the U.S. Army. Taylor speaks locally and internationally.

We want to inspire any of you who either have a story or message to spread or you’re ready to show up in the world doing what you’re passionate about.

So if you click this link, you will be able to tune into the iTune Apple Podcast or our Soundcloud podcast episode

CONNECTING WITH TAYLOR:
Website: www.taylormadespeaks.com
FB: www.facebook.com/TaylorMadeSpeaks
IG: www.instagram.com/taylormadespeaks


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* PODCASTS:
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& MOTHER DAUGHTER TALK: www.youtube.com/channel/UCfxB2whRen97XRzNIf9SrnQ
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WON’T HE DO IT & WORK IT WEDNESDAY

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Hey Hey Hey! It’s “WON’T HE DO IT & WORK IT WEDNESDAY” in my SINGLE WOMEN OF PURPOSE GROUP and I wanted to share this with you too.
WHAT’S NEW FOR YOU? YOU HAVE A TESTIMONY TO SHARE? NEW PLANS FOR 2020? ARE YOU WORKING ON SOMETHING THAT YOU NEED SUPPORT WITH? Do share in the comment section below.
FOR ME:
I’ve been posting a lil less due to some of my client’s stressful situations that calls for crisis interventions and by the time I get in, I have to take out time to relax and take care of my own personal responsibilities, laundry, eating, bills, and thinking lol. You all know it. I’m still praying for the day to leave my career contracting positions for full time ME but in the meantime, I use every session and counseling and coaching experience as lessons and empowering tools that further equip me for all of the ways I serve and serve as vehicles toward my destiny and legacy.
Everything is related to my purpose which I’m grateful for, and all of the people I help is most important when it makes their lives better. I’m also growing my brand, exposure and networking circles by using other local and online social media outlets. It’s more fun and easier to share content and strategies on social media and at local live events when you learn to REPURPOSE content to share with other new audiences. You never know how your messages, story, project, products and services will impact someone else.
If you want to check out an inspirational chat to motivate you in your efforts to step out on faith and vision, to realize your goal, dream and vision.
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More info about my SINGLE WOMEN OF PURPOSE GROUP:
** SINGLE WOMEN OF PURPOSE GROUP: https://bit.ly/SingleWomenofPurpose Sharing this from our Single Women of Purpose Facebook page which is centered on Single Women Inspiring each other to live with a purpose in the meantime before entering marriage. We take the focus away from desiring to be married to a man, and redirecting focus/desire toward living a purposeful life of personal and spiritual growth, finding your Godly-identity and earthly assignment, achieving overarching goals, inner-healing & maturity (encourage focus on our spiritual-physical-mental-emotional-behavioral health), walking in discernment, exchanging ideas and insight, building careers and businesses, accountability, prayer calls, and breaking generational patterns and poor habits that sabotage our relationships and growth.